1. What was the last movie you saw on a date?
Angels and Demons.

2. What was the last meal you had on a date?
On an actual get-out-of-your-pajamas-lets-go-somewhere kind of date? That would be Cheesecake Factory. (And yes, it was delicious.)

3. When was the last time you made out in the car on a date? More?
Probably the last time we went to the drive-in. Ditto for the more question.

4. Using a dating websites do you think you are more likely to find a “hook up“ or a relationship?
I’m sure it depends what you’re looking for and which site you use. Since I’ve never done the online dating thing myself, I really wouldn’t have any clue.

5. Do you have any special “first” date rituals? Flowers, certain restaurant, ect.
I haven’t been on a first date in over three years, so nope!

BONUS QUESTION: Do you believe in sex on the first date? Can a relationship bloom if you have sex on the first date?
I probably wouldn’t do it, but I know plenty of people who have. I think it depends on the people involved, and it’s really nobody else’s business.

1. Before the industrial revolution, most people never traveled more than 30 miles from their home. How far from your birth place do you now live?
Same town. Born and raised, weird right? I’ll probably end up leaving next year, but who can complain about beautiful California?

2. What is the fartherest distancet from home you have you have ever had sex or an orgasm? What is there farthest distance you have travelled from your home to have a sexual encounter?
I don’t log this stuff down, so no idea. Farthest distance travelled? No more than an hour most likely.

3. How many states (or Canadian provences or your country’s geopolitical division) and counties have you had sex and/or an orgasms in?
Again, I don’t log this stuff down. No clue.

4. Have you ever had sex in a vehicle? While the vehicle was moving?
I’ve fooled around in a car at a drive-in, but that’s as far as it’s ever gotten.

5. Do you have any travel related fantasy? If so, share, please.
Nope. (Well that was easy)

Bonus: On holidays that honor our military do you tend to rememeber those currently serving or veterans of military service?
Well… I am dating someone in the military, so that’s a given.

1. Ever Googled a date, a potential date or an ex?
Googled? No. Dug up dirt on Myspace? Definitely. I’m known for it.

2. Do you gossip?
Yes. I believe that some gossip can be harmless (not bashing someone else, spreading salacious rumors, etc.). Every girl does it, and if you answer “no” chances are you’re lying.

3. How many people do you completely trust?
Very few. (My parents, first and foremost.)

4. Have you ever had sex in car?
As much as M wishes the answer were yes, I haven’t. The jury is still out on whether I ever will or not.

5. What is your best flirting technique: innuendo, telling a dirty joke, talking about sex life, or physical contact?
Definitely not physical contact. I’m like an awkward 12 year old when it comes to flirting, and am much more comfortable telling dirty jokes or making inappropriate sexual innuendos.

Bonus (as in optional): How many times is the most you have ever had sex in a 24 hour period?
I think it’s somewhere around 9. Good times…

1. Don’t tell us what it is, but do you have a sexual secret you have never told anyone?
Probably not. I doubt that anybody knows every single sexual secret I have, but I don’t think there is a secret that I haven’t shared with somebody.

2. Do you have a nonsexual secret you have never told anyone?
Yes, and it is something that I don’t feel I need to share with anyone.

3. Did you ever tell someone a secret only to have them spill it? What were the repercussions?
High school, anyone? It is those kinds of situations that make you re-evaluate your relationships with those you trust and how much you trust them. It’s just a part of growing up and having relationships with people. Human nature, I suppose.

4. Did you ever spill a secret someone told you? What were the repercussions?
See #3. Sometimes it ends well, and sometimes you lose the trust and respect of someone you care about.

5. Tell us a secret someone told you, however along ago, that you’ve never told. (You can disguise name or details)
No way! I’m not in high school anymore, and I’m not going to post someone else’s business up on the internet, anonymous or not.

1. What do find is the most exciting part of a new sexual encounter?
As far as having a new sexual partner goes, I get anxiety and wouldn’t consider myself “excited” per se, just anxious. (I’m glad I have a long-term partner, and get to avoid having to deal with that anxiety.) As far as new activities go, the new-ness itself is exciting. Discovering new things about yourself and your partner is fun and is a great way to strengthen bonds.

2. Do you have “a most exciting part of a sexual encounter” with a usual partner?
Having a really good orgasm

3. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you just met?
I don’t want to be one of those people who over-share and tell you their whole life story (along with every trauma they have experienced) just because you asked them how they were. It depends on how I met the person and how they treat me and talk about others (No use spilling your guts to a gossip queen! You’ll just end up burned.)

4. How open and honest are you about your life with someone you work with?
I’m somewhat guarded around the people I work with. You would be too if you worked in my office!

5. How open and honest are you about your life with a casual acquaintance who lives in your neighborhood (or the parent a your child’s friend or…)?
I keep casual acquaintance conversations to polite small talk and not much more.

Bonus (as in optional): Define a “normal” as in “normal relationship” or “normal sex life”.
“Normal” is whatever you feel is right for you and are comfortable with. There is no right definition of “normal”.

1. What is your favorite charity? Do you you give your time or just money to that charity?
I love charities that deal with animals, such as the ASPCA. In my current situation, I have little to no time or money to give. In the future, I would love to be able to help out more.

2. Describe your bed. What side do you sleep on?
I have a full, and I sleep right smack-dab in the middle.

3. How important is a partners kissing ability?
I would say their kissing ability is important, but not as important as chemistry. People can change the way they kiss, but you can’t change the natural chemistry you have with someone.

4. Have you ever “taken advantage” of a person under the influence of alcohol? Have you ever been “taken advantage” of while under the influence of alcohol?
That’s a tricky question. Have I done things under the influence of alcohol that I wouldn’t have done otherwise? Yes. Do I consider the situation me being taken advantage of? Not really. I don’t let myself get to the point where I can’t say “no” and if I don’t want to do something at that time, then I won’t do it.

5. Ever tried to replay the famous scene from From Here to Eternity? How was it?
Nope, and probably never will. The beaches here are crappy. The ocean is freezing and I hate getting sand everywhere.

Bonus (as in optional): What kind of birth control do you use?
I was on Loestrin 24, but have decided to take some time off of birth control pills. So, for now, condoms.

1. When you sleep with someone, how much or how little contact do you like to have?
I love spooning. Although, depending on how tired I am, there are times when I don’t want much physical contact at all.

2. What do you think there is a appropriate amount of time for a divorce parent to date before introducing the kids to the “new” “special” person in their life?
I don’t think there is any simple or right answer to that question. It definitely depends on someone’s personal situation, and that is a judgement call that a person has to make for himself/herself.

3. Which ONE do you wish you had more of in bed… romance, experimentation or foreplay?
This is a tough question for me. For the most part, I get a good amount of all three. I’m going to go with experimentation, but on my part. I would like to be a little more adventurous as far as where we have sex [I'm semi-paranoid about getting caught. By anyone. Ever.]

4. What do you think makes a kiss great?
There are a lot of things that can make a kiss great. The meaning behind it, the person, the setting, any number of things. I would say a kiss was great if it left me speechless.

5. Describe your sex life in two words.
Part-time. [Between working full-time and being a full-time student, there's not a ton of time left for sex.]

Bonus (as in optional): Do you remember a time when you were having sex that you smile or even laugh about now? Do tell….
Sex in the linen closet under the staircase

1. What was the last movie you saw in a theater?
Oh gosh… It’s been so long I can’t even remember.

2. What is your favorite movie theater snack?
Red Vines! I always get them. Always. Nachos are good too

3. Have you ever snuck in ‘outside’ food into a theater?
All the time. That’s the great thing about big purses. Once me and M (back when he was still drinking) even snuck a 6-pack of Smirnoff Ice into matinee a showing of a Disney movie. We were sneaky!

4. Have you ever made out in a theater?
Of course!

5. What is the ‘farthest’ you have gone in a theater?
I’m always scared of getting caught, so nothing more than kissing. The drive-in is a completely different story though…

1. On a scale of 1-10, how satisfied are you with your sex life?
I’m going to say 7. I want to be able to have sex more often, but that’s not exactly possible when I only get to see the boy (from here on out to be known as M) once or twice a week. Even when we do see each other we’re limited to the sex we have, due to all of the people constantly around. When we are free to do as we please the sex is A.MAZ.ING.

2. If someone shoves you up against a wall while kissing you, your reaction is?
More, please. I love that. Raw passion makes for the best sex.

3. What is the most romantic thing anyone has ever done or said to you?
I’m very lucky in the fact that M is a true romantic at heart. Valentine’s Day a few years back was extremely romantic. He cooked dinner, set up his room with tons of pillows and candles, and kept the whole thing a surprise. He even made homemade bon-bons! The most romantic thing he has said to me has to be “You’re going to make an amazing wife and mother.”

4. Where is the most unusual place you have ever had sex?
A storage closet under a staircase. Barely enough room, but so much fun.

5. How do you liked to be kissed?
It honestly depends what kind of mood I’m in. There are days where I love sweet little kisses here and there, and others where I want to make out like a hormone-fueled teenager.

1. Would you rather be stranded on an island alone or with someone you dislike/don’t get along with?
Stranded with someone I dislike. People generally dislike others for superficial reasons, so I’m sure I could get past it. If not I could at least entertain myself by seeing how much I could annoy them

2. Would you rather accidentally walk in on your parents having sex or have them walk in on you?
Neither? There’s not much open communication about sex going on between me and my parents, so regardless of who-walked-in-on-who it would be ignored and avoided to the high heavens.

3. Would you rather be snapped by paparazzi during a nipple slip or while exiting a car with out any underwear?
Nip slip. Who cares about a little boobage?

4. Would you rather not have sex for two years or not be able to use the Internet for two years?
Weighing my love of internet porn and online toy sites against my love of sex… hmmm.
I’ll pick not having the internet. Sex is just too much fun.

5. Would you rather find true love or 1 million dollars?
Since I already found love, can I have the million dollars now?